How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids
From a leading child psychologist comes this groundbreaking new understanding of children’s behavior, offering insight and strategies to support both parents and children.
In Brain-Body Parenting, Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a “top-down” approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a “bottom-up” approach that considers the essential role of the entire nervous system, which produces children’s feelings and behaviors.
When we begin to understand the biology beneath the behavior, suggests Dr. Delahooke, we give our children the resources they need to grow and thrive—and we give ourselves the gift of a happier, more connected relationship with them. Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills –and the energy to provide the essential “co-regulation” children need. When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.
Beyond Behaviors Flip Chart
A Psychoeducational Tool to Help Therapists, Teachers & Parents Understand and Support Children with Behavioral Challenges
With this psychoeducational, in-session tool, you will learn the fundamental concepts behind the Beyond Behaviors approach, including:
- The developmental iceberg as a way to understand individual differences
- The three main autonomic nervous system states that inform a child’s behaviors
- How the process of neuroception reframes disruptive behaviors as protective and adaptive
- The six processes of social-emotional development
- How to reframe behaviors and provide appropriate accommodations for each child
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December 4th, 2021
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November 7th, 2021
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